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Rear Views

19 Thursday Sep 2013

Posted by Gert in Out & About

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I-40, inspiration, rear views, road trip, Route 66, scenic views, travel

Rear ViewDon’t look back. You hear that all the time. The past is the past, don’t waste your time looking back. Just put one foot in front of the other, and keep moving forward. These sage words of advice are meant to motivate you, to keep you moving in the right direction, to keep you focused on achieving your goals – your success. Whatever success happens to mean for you. Contrary to this popular advice, I have found that it can be fun, and enlightening, to see what’s behind you – especially if you can do it without actually looking back.

Over the past year I have made several road trips, traveling between Alabama and California, utilizing a variety of routes and rest stops. The trips were long, but they were quite enjoyable, and I saw so many wonderful sights on my journeys. They were opportunities for me to get out and about, and see what I could see.

Most of the trips were solo, so I had a lot of time to contemplate life, and try to discover the solution for world peace. But, there is only so much that one brain can take, and I had to find other means of entertaining myself during those extended periods of time between one destination, and the other. Who knew snapping random pictures could be so energizing and therapeutic?

The photographic techniques used here are simple: Point. Click. Wait until you get home to see what wonderful surprises await you. This is also known as the “keep your eyes on the road and at least one hand on the wheel” technique. My results generally run the gamut from half-way decent, to blurry mess, to what on earth were you pointing at when you snapped this.

I have assembled some of the results of my randomness in a collection that I call Rear Views. I see so many parallels and analogies for life in these images, but I am going to resist the impulse to describe them to you.  Show, don’t tell. Besides, we have already established the fact I don’t always see things the way most people do. And I’m OK with that. The photographs in this collection have been labeled RearViews a to z, but they appear in random order. If you’re interested, I invite you to buckle-up and enjoy the ride – see what you can see – and then share it with me.

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Save the Stuff, Save the Planet

16 Monday Sep 2013

Posted by Gert in Creative Therapy

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crafts, creativity, purses, recycle, repurpose, upcycle

Recycle StashAt first glance, someone with an untrained eye would swear that I’m a hoarder. Technically, that is not the case. I readily admit that I am the proud owner of a growing collection of bits of “stuff” dotting the landscape of my studio. But, in my own defense, I have to tell you that I only keep it because I’m going to make something with it one day.

OK, so I started collecting stuff, and repeating this same mantra, back in the days of my youth. Again, in my defense, I have actually made a lot of things with a lot of my stuff.

That being said, I can actually empathize with those on the outside who view my stashes of empty bottles, stored next to bits and pieces of paper or fabric, and my assorted lengths of ribbon peeking out from the shadows of bagged wood chips and assorted vegetation in various stages of drying, and think, “Why would anybody in their right mind hold on to trash like that? Why not put all that junk in the refuse or recycle bin where it belongs?” I understand, but there’s the rub – I AM in my right mind. While I am perfectly capable of logical (left-brain) thinking, I tend to view my world from a right-brain perspective. I see craft projects.

A self-proclaimed non-creative once asked me, “How do you get all of those ideas for making so many different projects?”

My answer to her was something along the lines of, “I see visions in my head. I don’t see things just for what they are, but for what they could also become.” She looked puzzled, so I went on to explain, “When I see a piece of paper, it’s not just a piece of paper – it could be an accent piece to something, or even a purse. When I look at the packing materials from a new dresser I see a frame for a headboard, or the foundation for a piece of wall art. An empty soda bottle isn’t destined to be a permanent place holder in a land fill, it’s a purse just waiting to happen. For me, I see craft projects in the things around me.”

And yes, I have a thing for purses, so everything gets evaluated for its “pursability”, but that’s a story for another time.

One area that I like to explore for my stash of treasures is called “functional reassignment”. This is where an item may retain most, if not all, of its original form, but is given a new purpose in my life. Examples of this would be the clock I made using an old discarded teapot; and the comfy travel pillows made from old T-shirts. In my mind, an empty container that once held an assortment of bath oils could easily become a purse, and it did.

There is a relatively new term in the craft world now called “upcycling”. Simply put, it is recycling with a flair. A nip, a tuck, and a stitch turns an old button-up shirt into a spiffy new blouse. Old cereal boxes are transformed into an elegant frame for a mirror. Pages from magazines, or the Sunday comics, give new life to old bangle bracelets. A pair of cowboy boots languishing in the back of a closet become a chic leather bag…there’s no end to the potential for creativity, and the role creativity can play in saving planet Earth.

Well, my friends, I want to do my part, so I have decided that I will continue to save my “stuff” because I AM going to make something with it one day. I am on a quest to save the planet, one creative project at a time. I’m pretty sure a lot of them will be purses.

Retro Splash handbag

Retro Splash trim

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Overwhelmed

14 Saturday Sep 2013

Posted by Gert in Out & About

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inspiration, introspection, motivation, overwhelmed, progress

Lone TreeUh-oh. Here it is again. That feeling of being so overwhelmed with all there is that needs to be done that you can’t seem to do anything. I see you nodding your heads – you understand. For me, it isn’t a frequent occurrence, but when it does hit – WOW!

I call this a time of being “overwhelmed into inactivity”. A time when your first thoughts may be to find a quiet corner and curl up in it, with your eyes closed, hoping to shut out all of the unwanted noise of demand. Or, you may find that sometimes you just sit, for a very long time, your mind reeling with all the commotion of the things you need to do, or think you should be doing, and not getting any of it done. It feels like having your ruby slippers stuck in the mud, and you’re trying to figure out a way to click the heels together so that you can get yourself back to Kansas. It can be a challenge to pull oneself out of the spiral.

I’m sure there are those trained professionals who would not hesitate to label these feelings as depression, but I don’t feel depressed, I just feel overwhelmed.

I guess I should clarify things a bit here. When I say “overwhelmed into inactivity”, I’m not immobilized, I’m just not doing what I think I probably should be doing. I may spend time chatting on the phone, or tinkering around the house. Or, I may curl up in my mother’s old recliner with a book, or with the TV remote and some comfort food. Preferably chocolate. OK, ice cream with chocolate in it.

I know – it sounds a lot like procrastination, but this is different. I know this because I have been known to procrastinate on occasion as well. This is more like having too many cookies on your plate, and you can’t decide which one to eat first; or over-thinking your next move in a challenging game of Jenga – the Turbo version.

I am happy to report that, to date, I have not required a pill or a professional. The cure for me is to get going and do something. Anything. You’re probably familiar with a variety of quotes that warn you ‘getting started’ has the potential for being the hardest part of any task. So, from that massive list of things to do, I just pick something and do it. It doesn’t have to make sense – it doesn’t even have to be a logical choice. I just have to pick something and get started on it.

I have found that even if I don’t complete the task right away, I feel motivated to keep moving forward. When I actually complete a task from my list, it feels a little like scoring a touchdown. It might not be the winning touchdown, but it gets me on the board. And, before I even realize it, I’m not feeling quite so overwhelmed because I see progress. Even if that progress is just a teeny, tiny, baby-step.

Here’s to progress. And touchdowns.

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Bird by Bird: Some Instructions on Writing and Life

30 Friday Aug 2013

Posted by Gert in About a Book

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Anne Lamott, Bird by Bird, inspiration, life lessons, writing

Bird by Bird coverI laughed, I cried, I didn’t want to put it down.

I always enjoy books that give an honest account of the author’s road to success. I don’t know if that is because misery loves company, or because it is an inspiration to know that others have overcome the obstacles they have encountered on this winding road, and it helps me believe that I can as well. It doesn’t hurt that the truth of her lessons (on writing and life) are tempered with humor and wit.

The story she recounts about a certain interaction shared between her father and her older brother, who was ten at the time, pulled at my heart, and it is also the impetus for the name of the book. I can’t tell you how often I use those three little words as a poignant reminder when I find myself up against a wall.

There are two other lessons from her book that I have found extremely useful as well. The first is “Shitty First Drafts”. In this lesson, Ms. Lamott instructs the reader to just get the words written down without worrying about syntax or any of the other technical stuff. Her descriptions of aspiring writers who become mired in perfection during the first round of writing had my picture all over them. This one lesson has helped me more than any of the others. Now, when I get an idea for an article or story, I just write. I don’t worry about punctuation, or spelling, or sentence structure – I just get the words down as quickly as I can – before the vision vanishes. Later, I go back and clean it up. I have to laugh when I realize some of the second and third drafts stink just as much as the first. I’m still learning.

The other lesson was on “Short Assignments”. This is an excerpt of what she had to say in regard to those feelings of being overwhelmed when you sit down to write, and everything but the words to your story start to race through your head:

…I finally notice the one-inch picture frame that I put on my desk to remind me of short assignments.
It reminds me that all I have to do is to write down as much as I can see through a one-inch picture frame. This is all I have to bite off for the time being.

I was so inspired by this lesson that I made my own frame.

Chocolate frame

Wait, this is the frame with the one-inch view.

Chocolate frame with view

When seeking inspiration, you may have to remove an obstacle from your view.\ /.

Bird by BirdLamott, Anne
Bird by Bird: Some Instructions on Writing and Life

Anchor Books
New York, NY
1995
ISBN 978-0-385-48001-7

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An Open Letter to “The Money”

26 Monday Aug 2013

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humor, letters, Living the Dream

Dear MoneyDear Money,

May I call you Money? I do hope you and all in your family are well. I know that this economy and the current political climate have been a little rough on you. Me too. I feel your pain.

I’m writing you today because for years and years, people have said to me, “Do what you love and the money will follow.” After a rather lengthy search, and more than a few missteps, I am doing what I love.

I finally gathered the courage to take a leap of faith and started a Blog. Yes I did. I write about whatever happens to be on my mind and people actually take the time to read what I have written. I find that amazing. But that was just the beginning. I also get to share a few of my creations and inspirations, and I teach along the way. This is so much fun that I hesitate to call it work, but it certainly keeps me busy – all of the designing and writing and teaching. Yes, I am a Designer, Writer, and Educator. It’s official – it says so on my business cards. This is what I have dreamed of for a very long time and I love, love, love what I do.

And now, I just want to hold you, and squeeze you, and take you home.

You don’t have to stay with me forever, I know of others who would love to see you as well, just stop by here on a regular and significant basis, and I will happily help you find your way to them. We can start with the nice people over at the power company, they send me little notes every month to let me know how much they are looking forward to your visit with them. Oh, and that one girl at the grocery store, the one who always smiles when I give her cash. And then she’ll say, “Enjoy the rest of your day!” when she gives me the receipt. I like that. And let’s not forget my Landlord. She has promised not to put me out on the street as long as I can get you to her by the fifth day of the month. She’s a little pushy about your visits, but I like having this roof over my head, so I really don’t want to disappoint her. And by the way, the guys over at the gas station always seem to perk up when I stop by to fill up the car. I may be overly dependent on you for that, but, in this weather I would rather ride than walk. Just the other day one of them said, “Ya’ll come back now.” I had to smile because I knew that he knew that I knew I would.

So, as you can see, a lot of people are depending on me to get you to them. This is a big responsibility and I take it very seriously. And that brings me back to the reason I’m writing. This is a little awkward, and I think I may be a little paranoid about that whole being followed thing, but could you please stop following and catch up? Is there something I can do to put a little pep in your step to get you here with me instead of waaayyy back there? I tried slowing down a little, to give you time to close the gap, but I don’t want to lose my momentum and get stuck in a rut again – this is much bigger than me, and I have to press on.

OK, that’s all I wanted to say for now. I just wanted to invite you to travel with me on this amazing journey, I hope to see you soon. Real soon.

With sincere regard,
Gert

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